Observe before drawing conclusions
Notice what happened and ask how the other person saw it. Their perspective can help us see what we missed.
How I work
I start with situations we recognise. A conversation where we talk without listening, a request for help we’ve put off or a decision left unclear. That’s where presence, listening and a method become something we can use.
In practice
Notice what happened and ask how the other person saw it. Their perspective can help us see what we missed.
Try a question, a pause or a clearer way of making a request. In groups, I draw on psychological safety, Action Learning, Theory U and emotional regulation, depending on the situation.
Name what made a difference and choose when to practise it again. If the change depends on several people, agree who will do what and when you’ll talk about what happened.
Themes
When pressure becomes overload
Emotional regulation, energy management and well-being practices for leaders and teams facing high demands and change.
When important issues go unspoken
Team development grounded in psychological safety, trust and difficult conversations, so people can handle conflict, learn from mistakes and make decisions together.
When rework drains the team’s effort
Facilitation to clarify processes, roles and decisions and reduce confusion, rework and overload across people and departments.